Sunday, 29 April 2018

Nose

NOSE




The visible part of the human nose is the protruding part of the face that bears the nostrils. The shape of the nose is determined by the nasal bones and the nasal cartilages, including the septal cartilage (which separates the nostrils) and the upper and lower lateral cartilages. On average the nose of a male is larger than that of a female.
The nose has an area of specialised cells which are responsible for smelling(part of the olfactory system). Another function of the nose is the conditioning of inhaled air, warming it and making it more humid. Hairs inside the nose prevent large particles from entering the lungs. Sneezing is usually caused by foreign particles irritating the nasal mucosa, but can more rarely be caused by sudden exposure to bright light (called the photic sneeze reflex) or touching the external auditory canal. Sneezing can transmit infections, because it creates aerosols in which the droplets can harbour microbes.
  The nose is the body's primary organ of smell and also functions as part of the body's respiratory system.Air comes into the body through the nose. As it passes over the specialized cells of the olfactory system, the brain recognizes and identifies smells. Hairs in the nose clean the air of foreign particles. As air moves through the nasal passages, it is warmed and humidified before it goes into the lungs.
The most common medical condition related to the nose is nasal congestion. This can be caused by colds or flu, allergies, or environmental factors, resulting in inflammation of the nasal passages. The body's response to congestion is to convulsively expel air through the nose by a sneeze.
Nosebleeds, known medically as epistaxis, are a second common medical issue of the nose
The entire nasal cavity is lined with a mucosal surface made up of epithelial cells and glands that produce mucus. This mucus keeps the inside of the nose moist, traps allergens and other particles and helps keep the air you breathe in humid. Millions of cilia continually move the mucus layer across the mucosal surface, pushing harmful particles out of the nose in the process. In this sense, the nose is an air filter that purifies air before it reaches the lungs.


KARNA


KARNA.
Karna  originally known as Vasusena, is one of the central characters in the Hindu epic Mahābhārata. The epic describes him as the king of Anga (present day Bhagalpur and Munger). As per the Mahabharata, he was one of the warriors in that era who conquered the entire world. Karna single-handedly and successfully conducted Digvijaya Yatra, a campaign in which he conquered all kings in every direction of the world, and was instrumental in establishing Duryodhana as the emperor of the world by conducting the Vaishnava sacrifice. Karna was equal to 2 Maharatha warriors.
Karna was the son of Surya and Kunti, born to Kunti before her marriage with Pandu. Karna was the closest friend of Duryodhana and fought on his behalf against the Pandavas (his brothers) in the Kurukshetra War. Karna fought against misfortune throughout his life and kept his word under all circumstances. It is believed that Karna founded the city of Karnal, in present Haryana.
Meeting Duryodhana.
To display the skills of the Kuru princes, their guru Dronacharya arranged a friendly tournament. His student Arjuna, third of the Pandava brothers, was a gifted archer. Karna arrived at this tournament, uninvited, and displaying Arjuna's feats, challenged him to a duel. Kripacharya refused Karna his duel, asking first for his clan and kingdom; for according to the rules of duelling, only a prince could challenge Arjuna to a duel. Due to his low standing, Karna was not allowed to fight Arjuna. He was further insulted by Bhima who compared him to a stray dog, for his mixed caste and lineage. This incident marks the beginning of a feud between Karna and the Pandavas  Duryodhana, the eldest of the one hundred sons of the king Dhritarashtra, was envious of the martial prowess of his cousins, the Pandavas. Seeing Karna as a chance to get on even terms with them he immediately offered Karna the throne of the kingdom of Anga, making him a king and hence eligible to fight a duel with Arjuna. Neither of them knows that Karna was in fact Kunti's eldest son, born to the Sun God Surya. When Karna asked him what he could do to repay him, Duryodhana told him that all he wanted was his friendship.
It is said that, Duryodhana never shed a single tear drop for any of his real brothers who were killed in the battlefield, but when his beloved friend Karna was slain, he was inconsolable

1. Karna was literally abandoned by his own mother
2. He was refused the knowledge of warfare, because he was a charioteer’s son
3. Undaunted with a thirst for learning, he disguised himself as a brahmin to learn
4. Parshuram cursed him even though he knew that Karna was a Kshatriya
5. He even outshone Arjun when they finished their training, but was shooed away like a dog by Dronacharya
6. He won Draupadi’s hand in marriage even before Arjuna by hitting the fish’s eye but again was rejected
7. He was cursed by a brahmin for accidentally killing a cow while practicing archery
8. He was not allowed to fight because Bhishma refused to fight alongside a warrior who was not Kshatriya
9. Karna gave his enchanted armor to a disguised Indra, even when he knew it was dirty trick
10. Kunti pleaded to Karna to not kill the Pandavas, even if that meant that Karna died.
11. Arjuna’s chariot wheel was stuck in their duel, and Karna paused the fight, respecting the rules
12. Only to be killed in the most wretched fashion
Then, Karna’s chariot wheel was stuck.
And all the curses followed.
He forgot the incantations to divine weapons.
And Arjuna killed him when he was the most vulnerable.
All his life, Karna was ridiculed, shamed and humiliated. At Every time. And not just by other characters. He was shamed by fate itself. But he never stopped learning, and never stopped fighting. And he never stopped being a loyal friend to Duryodhana.
Duryodhana told his wife Bhanumati “In a relation there is no scope for doubt, for when doubt settles in there will be no relation. Karna is my best friend and I trust him because I have faith that he will never break my trust”
Karna refused to join ranks with Pandavas, because of his friendship and loyalty towards Duryodhana. In true terms, Karna was the only one who followed dharma throughout his life. He knew what Duryodhana was doing was wrong, but he was an active participant who supported Duryodhan endlessly. Karna was all for loyalty and gratitude.  
Karna replied to Krishna "Kurukshetra is a sacrificial field. Arjuna is the Head Priest, you -Krishna are the presiding deity. Myself (Karna), Bhishma Dev, Dronacharya and Duryodhana are the sacrifice.’ Krishna ended their conversation by telling Karna, ‘You are the best of the Pandavas.’
Lord Krishna created Karna to show the world the true meaning of sacrifice, and how one should accept their fate. Despite bad luck or bad times, he continued to believe in spirituality, generosity, humility, dignity and self-respect, and remained respectful towards his loved ones. 
And he never refused to stand up for what he believed in – Dharma.
And the most important of all – he never stopped giving. He gave away his most valuable at a request, even though he knew how cruel fate was. So, if you think you have had a bad day, and life is not going as you want it to, take heart from the story of Karna and face it nonetheless, without fear of failure and without any interruption in learning. Because at the end of the day, and at the end of time, were you unflinching in the eye of a cruel fate and stayed your path? Because in real life fate does seem to be cruel and life is unfair.
Weather the storm and live your life in humility, generosity and dignity – just like Karna.













KARMA.

                                                                 

What is Karma in Hinduism?


The law of karma is a simple and straightforward concept according to which beings, not just men, are rewarded or punished according to their own actions and intentions. Thus good actions and intentions reap good rewards and bad actions and intentions result in suffering and pain. With some minor variations this concept is common to Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and Sikhism. In Islam we find some echoes of it in such declarations of Quran as "Whoever does a good deed he shall be repaid tenfold and whoever does evil, he shall be repaid with evil."
We have every reason to believe that Jesus was aware of the law of karma. He willingly agreed to take over the karma of all his followers and free them from sin as long as they acknowledged him as their savior, repented for their actions and made a true confession of their actions before God. He suffered on the cross because he took over the karma of many people during his lifetime upon earth and he continues to do so even after his departure.

In the Bhagavadgita, Lord Krishna makes a similar promise. He promises salvation for all those who willingly offer all their actions to Him, accepting Him as the real doer, with a sense of detachment, and without desiring the fruit of their actions. The main difference between the eastern and western religions is that in Islam and Christianity you commit sin against the law of God, where as in Hinduism and related religions, you commit sin against yourself by your own actions
In simple terms, the law of karma suggests that a person's mental and physical actions are binding. Through our actions or inactions and our intention behind them we bind ourselves to Prakriti and cycle of births and deaths. Broadly speaking, karma means not only actions, but also the intentions and consequences associated with each action. In ancient times, karma originally meant sacrificial or ritual acts. Karmakanda meant body of rituals and sacrificial ceremonies we were expected to perform as a part of our moral and social responsibility. However as the time went by it came to be associated with all intentions and actions that had consequences and were binding in nature. The Bhagavadgita went a step ahead and included the desire for fruit of one's action also as binding.
The law of karma has its echoes in the scientific world also. We find it in Newton's law motion, according to which every actions has an equal and opposite reaction. The law of karma is very much verifiable in real life. We all have seen in our own lives and in nature too, that we reap what we sow. Our successes and failures are mostly products of our own thoughts and actions. If we think positively and act positively, very likely we will succeed. On the contrary if we think and act negatively, very likely we will bring negativity and suffering upon ourselves. Sometimes in spite of all the good work and sincere intentions, we may reap negative consequences. A student may prepare well for his exam, but may fail. A very evil and wicked person may earn the jackpot or become owner of a successful business venture. The theory of karma has a convincing explanation such situations. The current events in our lives need not necessarily be determined by our previous actions in this very life, but also by the actions we did in our previous lives. This explains why sometimes there is a disconnect between our actions and consequences, why bad people often seem to enjoy success and prosperity, while good people seem to suffer despite their best actions and intentions.
Some Beliefs About Karma
Some of the beliefs associated with karma are well known: that it is a self-correcting mechanism, that it binds beings to the cycle of births and deaths, that it is caused by desires and the activities of the senses, that it is responsible for the evolution of beings from one stage to another and that it is possible to reverse the bondage caused by law of karma through various means.
According to Hindu scriptures, the law of karma is universal. Even gods are subject to it. Some Puranas declare that the trinity of gods, Brahma, Vishnu and Siva, have attained their current positions of divine responsibilities because of their meritorious actions in the previous cycles of creation. Lord Krishna himself said to have died because of the unintentional action of a hunter, who stuck an arrow in his toe, mistaking it to be a rabbit, as a consequences of his own act of killing Bali from behind a tree in a deceptive manner in his previous incarnation as Lord Rama.
The Types of Karma
To explain situations like the one mentioned above, Hinduism recognizes four types of karma operating in our lives simultaneously. They are:
§  Sanchita Karma. It is sum total of the accumulated karma of previous lives. It is the burden of your past, which is in your account and which needs to be exhausted at some stage in your existence.
§  Prarabdha Karma. It is that part of your sanchita karma which is currently activated in your present life and which influences the course of your present life. Depending upon the nature of your actions, you are either exhausting it or creating more karmic burden for yourself.
§  Agami Karma. It is the karma that arises out of your current life activities, whose consequences will be experienced by you in the coming lives. It is usually added to the account of your sanchita karma.
§  Kriyamana Karma. This is the karma whose consequences are experienced right now or in the near future or distant future, but in any case in this very life.
If something happens unexpectedly against our intentions and despite our good efforts, Hindus believe it be the Prarabdha or the consequence of actions performed in their previous lives. There is nothing much we can do about it, except seeking divine intervention and exhaust it through our current actions. Such is said to be the power of prarabdha karma that only the serious minded devotees and servants of God are freed from it by His grace.
The traditional view of Hinduism has been that karma is a body of obligatory duties, rites and rituals, we are expected to perform as a part of our social, moral, family and personal responsibilities. Same is the approach of the Mimansa (ritual) schools of Hinduism. Hindu scriptures classify such duties into the following three categories:
§  Nitya karma. These are the daily sacrifices, such as the morning, afternoon and evening prayers and the five kinds of sacrificial offering of food (ahuta, huta, prahuta, bali, brahmayuta, prasita). Technically, whatever duties that we are supposed to perform as human beings, come under this category such as bathing, eating, praying, sleeping and so on.
§  Naimittika karma. These are the duties that are to be performed on specific occasions, such as festivals, solar and lunar eclipses, the various samskaras such as upanayana, marriage, funeral rites and so on.
§  Kamyakarma. These are the optional duties that we perform in order to realize a particular goal or wish, such as going to a pilgrimage, educating one's children, buying some property, performing a sacrificial rite wishing to attain heavenly life and so on.
Of these, the first two are obligatory in the sense that if we do not perform them we will incur sin. The third one is optional, that is there is no harm in neglecting them, but there can be some merit if we decide to pursue them in a right manner. We have to remember that in the very concept of karma is implied the importance of means. Whatever may be the end, if the means are not good, we will incur sin. By studying the scriptures, by practicing morality and by the use of buddhi (intelligence), we develop the sense of right and wrong. However since our knowledge of right and wrong is never perfect, there is no guarantee that by performing these duties and actions in a right way we will always incur merit. Hence the need to neutralize our karma in more effective ways, through spiritual means, which are discussed below.
The Solutions To the Problem of Karma
Since no human being can escape the law of karma, it leaves us with anxiety, especially when we know that we cannot live without performing actions and our actions would result in consequences for ourselves and our future. When we know that the consequences of our actions may go beyond this life, we become even more concerned as we are not even sure how they are going to effect our future. Because we do not have the all round vision of the divinities, we cannot see into the future and know what is going to happen or how we are going to live. In these circumstances, how are we supposed to conduct ourselves? Should we stop all action, because every action will have some negative impact at some level? These questions are answered in our scriptures in great detail. For the purpose of our essay, we deal with the solutions suggested in Vaishnavism and Saivism, the two dominant traditions of Hinduism. Both of them agree on the point that we can reverse the consequences of our actions through the grace and intervention of God. However they differ with regard to the means we can employ to achieve it. More or less, we find similar approaches in other traditions of Hinduism also.

Vaishnavism

According to Vaishnava tradition1, kaivalya or happiness of one's true state comes only after the experience of true self (atmanubhava). The individual jiva is truly a servant of God, but because of ignorance and attachment, he becomes a slave of his senses and mind and forgets his connection with God and the true nature of himself. At some stage in his existence, after going through several lives, he experiences despondency (nirveda) and non-attachment (vairagya) and becomes a seeker of liberation (mumukshu). He realizes the futility of performing meritorious acts to attain the pleasures of heaven or success upon earth, because he finds them to be displeasing, uninteresting and impermanent. He therefore yearns for permanent liberation from the travails of his earthly existence, through various means (upayas), which are especially meant to neutralize his ongoing karma and also exhaust his previous or prarabdha karma. These means are discussed below.

In Saivism, the absolute highest lord of the universe is identified as Siva or Pati (Lord), who is eternal and unbound, in contrast to jivas (beings) or pasus (animals), who are bound to Prakriti, or the dynamic energy of Siva, through the three pasas (bonds) or malas (impurities), namley, anava or egoism, karma or actions with consequences and maya or delusion. Because of these three bonds, a jiva undergoes repeated births and deaths, till it is liberated. Pati, pasu and pasas are thus the three most important concepts of Saivism.

Conclusion

Awareness of the law of karma is an important step in the religious life of any individual. Karma is responsible for our becoming and being. Our problems of existence and the law of karma becomes active only when we enter into the state of beingness. Through karma we perpetuate this state of beingness and create our own future existence. Karma is supposed to be a corrective mechanism, meant to refine us gradually through our own actions, but since we are not perfect masters, we do it rather clumsily, like blind people trying to carve a statue out of a stone. When we realize that our thoughts, intentions and actions lead to our bondage and suffering, we become more responsible in what we do and how we live. We aim to lead divine centered lives, in which our main objective would be to free ourselves from the consequences of our own actions, without escaping from our duties and responsibilities. The murma (secret) of karma (action) is to consecrate both our actions and their fruit to our personal God and cultivate purity (sattva), devotion (bhakti), equanimity and other divine qualities enumerated in the Bhagavadgita to become qualified for our liberation. The law of karma makes it abundantly clear that the solution to our liberation lies in our hands and how we go about it is left to ourselves.












JAGJIT SINGH.


JAGJIT SINGH.
Jagjit Singh, born Jagmohan Singh Dhiman, was an iconic Indian Ghazal singer, composer and musician. Known as the "Ghazal King", he gained acclaim together with his wife, another renowned Indian ghazal singer Chitra Singh in the 1970s and 1980s. 
Born8 February 1941, Sri Ganganagar
Died10 October 2011, Mumbai
SpouseChitra Singh (m. 1969–2011)
InstrumentsVocals, harmonium, tanpura, piano

Jagjit Singh, born Jagmohan Singh Dhiman (8 February 1941 – 10 October 2011), was an iconic Indian Ghazal singer, composer and musician. Known as the "Ghazal King", he gained acclaim together with his wife, another renowned Indian ghazal singer Chitra Singh in the 1970s and 1980s. Their combination album comprising music from the films, Arth and Saath Saath is the HMV's largest selling combination album of all time. Sajda (An Offering, 1991), Jagjit Singh's magnum opus double album with Lata Mangeshkar holds the same record in non-film category. He sang in numerous languages. He was awarded the Padma Bhushan by the government of India in 2003. In February 2014, Government of India released a set of two postal stamps in his honour.
Singh is credited for the revival and popularity of ghazal, an Indian classical art form, by choosing poetry that was relevant to the masses and composing them in a way that laid more emphasis on the meaning of words and melody evoked by them. In terms of Indian Classical music, his style of composing and Gayaki(singing) is considered as Bol-pradhan, one that lays emphasis on words. He highlighted this in his music for films such as Prem Geet (1981), Arth and Saath Saath (1982), and TV serials Mirza Ghalib (1988) and Kahkashan (1991). Jagjit Singh is considered to be the most successful ghazal singer and composer of all time in terms of critical acclaim and commercial success.
Singh was still struggling to make a living in 1967 when he met the Bengali-born Chitra Dutta. She divorced her husband and married Singh in December 1969.]Following the birth of their son, Vivek, the couple performed as a singing duo but it was not until the 1976  release of the album The Unforgettable that they found significant, and surprising, success. In the interval, the primary difficulty for them had been that the ghazal music genre was dominated by Muslim artists and especially those from Pakistan.
Among their subsequent duo recordings of the 1970s were Shiv Kumar Batalvi – Birha da Sultan (1978), Live in Concert at Wembley (1979) and Come Alive (1979). Of those released in the 1980s, "The Latest" by Sudarshan Faakir was the best selling album with his lifetime hit "Woh Kagaz ki Kashti...Woh Baarish ka Paani". It was the first album by the duo with poetry of only one Poet. Ecstasies (1984) has also been described as "one of their finest". The joint projects ceased in 1990 when their 18-year-old son, Vivek, was killed in a road accident. Chitra felt unable to sing following these events. Monica, Chitra's daughter from her first marriage, committed suicide in 2009.
Although Jagjit continued to work and to have success after Chitra withdrew from public life he, too, was affected by the death of Vivek. The Guardian notes that he "suffered from deep depression and his anguish was often evident in his live performances. In 1990, Vivek (Jagjit Singh and Chitra's son) died in a road accident at the age of 20. This came as a profound shock to Jagjit and Chitra Singh. They gave up music for a full year after the death. At the end of that period, Jagjit returned slowly to music, but Chitra announced her retirement and declared that she would not sing or record any more songs.
On 10 May 2007, in the presence of numerous political and diplomatic luminaries at an event held in the Central Hall of the Parliament of India, Jagjit Singh rendered Bahadur Shah Zafar's famous ghazal Lagta nahin hai dil mera to commemorate the 150th anniversary of the Indian Rebellion of 1857.
Singh toured the UK in 2011 and was due to perform with Ghulam Ali in Mumbai but suffered a brain haemorrhage on 23 September 2011. He was in a coma for over two weeks and died on 10 October at Lilavati Hospital, in Mumbai. He was cremated the following day at Chandanwadi Crematorium near Marine Lines in Mumbai.






Saturday, 21 April 2018


KRISHNA RIVER.
Krishna River
Krishna is a mighty east flowing river of peninsular India. It is the same river as Krsnavena in the Puranas or Krsnaveni in the Yoginitantra. It is also known as Kanhapenna in Jatakas and Kanhapena in the Hathigumpha inscription of Kharavela. The word Krishna also indicates dark color.

According to the Hindu Mythology Krishna River is the incarnation of Lord Vishnu as a result of a curse on the trimurtis by Savitri ( another name of saraswati). Krishna River is one of the sacred rivers of India like Ganga River and Yamuna River. This river is named upon Lord Krishna. As per puranas, a ritual dip in this river can purify all the past sins and impurities of human being.
The River Krishna, meaning "dark" in Sanskrit. Its full name is 'Krishnaveni'. Its tributaries Venna and Koyna are said to be Lord Shiva and Lord Brahma.
 Traditionally this river was originated from the mouth of a statue of a cow in the ancient temple of Mahadev in Old Mahabaleshwar iin Maharastra. Another four rivers come out from the cow's mouth apart from Krishna and they all travel some distance before merging into Krishna. These rivers are the Koyna, Venna (Veni), Savitri, and Gayatri. Panchaganga temple is the origin of seven rivers-Krishna,Koyana,Gayatri,Savitri,Venna, Saraswati and Bhagirathi.

As per puranas, there lived a Brahmin in a village. He did severe penance towards Lord Shiva. Lord Shiva granted a boon because of which he was blessed with a power to purify the holy rivers. He was known as Pushkar (the one who nourishes). rivers holy. During this time all deities and rishis take holy dip to purify and make the rivers While traveling from one zodiac sign to another, Brihaspati requested Pushkar to make the 12 sacred rivers.

Birthplace of Krishna River: Krishna Bai Temple Krishna River originates at Mahabaleshwar in Maharashtra. It is believed that Krishna Bai Temple in the Old Mahabaleshwar is the birth place of river Krishna. Krishna Bai Temple is an ancient Shiva shrine where a stream comes out of the mouth of a cow . This stream further cascades to become the Krishna River. Krishna Bai Temple is near to Panchaganga Temple in Mahabaleshwar. The rustic look of this age-old shrine looks more beautiful during the monsoon. Meeting of Five! Krishna and a few of his tributaries begin their journey in the Western Ghats. The Panchaganga Temple is a 4,500 years-old temple where Krishna river along with Venna, Koyna , Gayatri and Savitri rivers flow out of the mouth of cow (goumukh). Though these rivers branch out, later they join Krishna River. 
Famous Dams on Krishna River Alamatti Dam in North Karnataka, Srisailam Dam in Telangana, Nagarjuna Sagar Dam in Andhra Pradesh and Telangana, Prakasam Barrage at Vijayawada are some of the famous dams built on Krishna River. Drains into Bay of Bengal Krishna emerges in the Western Ghats of Maharashtra and drains into the Bay of Bengal in the village of Hamsaladevi at Andhra Pradesh.

 






STRAY THOUGHTS AND RANDOM IDEAS.
“Dips, a young girl, Chitrangda, of about 10 years residing in my building is having a problem. Her parents have now realized that the girl has the nasty habit of stealing things from neighborhood shops, her classes etc. They are frantic and asked guidance from me.”
Dr. Ganguly explained about this mental disorder.”                                         
KLEPTOMANIA.
This act of stealing things is called Kleptomania. The person having this mental disorder gets the irresistible urge to steal, feels pleasure, relief, and gratification while stealing. But after the theft is committed, the person feels terrible guilt, remorse, self-loathing, shame or fear of arrest. After a few days, the urge returns and the cycle of kleptomania repeat.
 They simply steal because the urge is so powerful that they cannot resist it, unlike common thieves who steal for personal gains. Kleptomania episodes occur spontaneously, usually without planning and without any help from another person. Most people with kleptomania steal from public places such as stores, malls etc. Some may steal from friends or acquaintances such as at a party. Often the stolen items have no value for this person as he/she can afford to buy them. The stolen items are usually stashed away, never to be used.
Many persons with kleptomania do not want to seek any medical treatment for their mental disorder because they are afraid they will be arrested or jailed. Kleptomania is a type of impulse control disorder and is characterized by problems with emotional or behavioral self control. Although there is no cure for kleptomania, treatment with medication or psychotherapy may be able to help end the cycle of compulsive stealing.
“Call the parents and the girl to my office for guidance.”
After talking with Chitrangda  for about two hours, I called her parents to my chamber while the child waited outside in my clinic. “I have understood the basic problem which had triggered this disorder. You two are to be greatly credited for her psychological problem. You did not encourage her at the early ages when she showed her interest in dance, music and paintings etc. Instead you made her to concentrate on only studies. She is a brilliant child in her studies, you know that. At the same time, she had inborn talents for other interests which could have flourished along with her studies.
Instead, for unknown reasons, you both bottled her desires and drove her to only study. Many parents do this mistake. They are obsessed with their children’s studies. They are not aware that their children have immense capacity in their minds and bodies to handle other aspects too, along with their school studies. They do not trust their own children. The parents are obsessed that their children should study well in their schools and score centum in all their subjects. The parents aspire that after 12th standard, their children should join Medical, Engineering or other competitive fields. They do not recognize the other talents in their children which could make them outstanding when they grow. The natural talents in their children are aborted by the parents in the formative years of the children.
In fact all the parents must undergo psycho analysis and treatment compulsorily when they have growing children in their houses! That will make them understand themselves better and then their children. In their anxiety to educate their children they forget that there are many other qualities to be admired other than mechanical studies. There is no point in blaming the children when they do not get psychological support from their parents. This vacuum invites many disorders in the minds of the children. Some children can handle these traps and come out of them at early stages and many do not know that they are in pits leave alone try to overcome the traps. Can we blame the innocent kids if they do wrong things?”